In the West of the Isle of Man, David Lancaster Funeral Directors stands as a testament to decades of commitment and care. Founded in 1981 by David Lancaster himself, the business grew under his leadership to become the largest funeral director service in the western part of the island. In 2006, a new chapter unfolded as David’s son-in-law, Simon Mellor, joined the team, bringing a fresh perspective and a passion for learning.
Simon Mellor, now the proud owner of the funeral directors, started his journey at the age of 30. Trained by David, he quickly immersed himself in the intricacies of the profession. Despite not being academically inclined in his school years, the funeral industry sparked a desire for knowledge within Simon. Eager to enhance his skills, he pursued additional qualifications, positioning himself as a fully qualified director by 2018.
A Family Legacy
The transition of ownership from David to Simon and his wife Sharon marked a turning point for the business in 2012. Simon’s goal of 100 funerals a year expanded, surpassing expectations. Since 2023, the demand for their unique funeral services has steadily increased, with an anticipated rise for 2024.
A Personal Touch
Simon’s dedication extends beyond the administrative duties. From washing cars to orchestrating the entire funeral process, he takes pride in being hands-on. The business isn’t just a livelihood; it’s Simon’s passion. His commitment shines through as he personally ensures that clients have all the information they need to make decisions tailored to their unique needs.
Simon acknowledges shifting trends in funeral services. While religious ceremonies are declining, clients still seek comfort in incorporating religious symbology, such as a prayer or a hymn. The preference for a variety of civil celebrants who can accommodate this is on the rise, allowing families more choices aligned with their values.
Listening is at the core of Simon’s approach. By attentively listening understanding his clients’ wishes, he crafts meaningful services that honour the departed. Simon recognises the importance of chosen celebrants, carefully selecting them based on his clients’ needs.
Innovations and Future Plans
Looking ahead, plans to create David Lancaster’s vision for a small service space within the business grounds, providing an intimate setting for ceremonies in the West, is close to completion. Additionally, Simon is currently developing a Natural Memorial Woodland—a wild and natural space for loved ones’ ashes, free from traditional markers. These initiatives showcase a commitment to providing families with diverse and meaningful options during their difficult times.
Asked about his motivation, Simon candidly admits that he loves what he does. In Simon’s own words, the job isn’t just a job—it’s the most rewarding thing he can do. Even on holidays, his thoughts are occupied by the role he plays in helping people navigate the challenges of saying goodbye. Beyond a mere job, each day is an opportunity to make a difference. While challenges may arise, the inherent rewards of helping people during a difficult time far outweigh any momentary doubts. Simon’s dedication is unwavering. His commitment to being on-call 24/7 reflects a sense of responsibility to provide families with everything they need during their time of grief.
As David Lancaster Funeral Directors continues to evolve under Simon’s guidance, it remains a beacon of empathy and professionalism, a place where the profound meets the personal in the delicate journey of bidding farewell to loved ones.
